I have been with my boyfriend going on 7 years now. We met in high school when I was a freshman and he a sophomore. I am 21 and he is 22. We had the most incredible relationship in the beginning. Everything was absolutely perfect! We took to each others interests, were intimate (all of the time), never really fought and when we did we were able to work it out, etc.

Somewhere a long the line our relationship went downhill. Now we are to the point where we fight all of the time and are both miserable. I get mad at him for the littlest things, I am always frustrated, and I am unhappy almost all of the time. We get in huge fights a lot of the time. In March, we had a very very serious fight that lasted almost a month. I find myself getting depressed more and more often as time goes on. Every time I am upset and try to talk to him about our problems, he huffs and puffs and says he does not want to talk about it. If we finally do talk about it, he always turns it around on me. For example, he says that he does what he does because of how I act. (which what he does is play games and not spend time with me)

The things that he does really bother me. He is constantly playing this game on his phone called Lords Mobile. He has been playing it since December 2016. He is extremely into the game and won’t put it down so that we can have a regular conversation and if he does put it down it is only after I beg him for 5 minutes or more. Even then he won’t put it down for very long. He’s on that game communicating with people more than he communicates with me. When he is on his game, he will promise that he is listening to me so that we can continue our conversation. I will talk for maybe about 2 minutes and then I will pause and wait for a response and he hadn’t heard anything I said. This is an ongoing occurrence. He also does not care about his health or the way he looks. He eats whatever he wants whenever he wants and drinks so many drinks with sugar in them. He also never works out. This is something that I find horribly unattractive.